I guess it’s truly all about whatever floats your boat, but there are some benefits and downfalls to it either way.1.
Stability Seems like the most logical reason to date an older man, right?
Are your girlfriends saying you really need an older man?
Are you tired of dating guys your own age who don't have their shit together, are there one minute, gone the next? Sometimes dating someone around your age is gruelling and it just doesn't, no matter how hard you try, spell out blissful romance.
The fact of the matter is most older men have their “ish” together!
But what might the real benefits of dating someone younger be?
Turns out, experts say compatibility between two people who just happen to have an age gap isn’t as unusual as we may think.
I can think of one acquaintance (on the autism spectrum) who at 30 years old behaved more like a bright, but slightly troubled, 13 year old than like the unemployed Ph. His health may deteriorate, especially if he has not take care of his body. If you are not, things ain't workin' for long.4. If you are in the 18-early twenties range, he may not be interested in much more than casually dating and fucking like rabbits.
If he became seriously ill in a few years, are you ready to devote potentially years of your prime to being his nursemaid? If he introduces you to his age peers, they will all think he is dating you for the sex rather than for LTR interest.